Being a stay at
home Mom is the best! I really love my job, I get to stay home with my precious
daughter, keep my home clean and pretty and have a nice dinner ready when my
Hubby gets home. This is the life I always wanted and we are very blessed that
we are able to do this and live off of one salary. It isn’t easy. We have a
strict budget and savings plan. We follow the Dave Ramsey program. If you
haven’t read the book “The Total Money Makeover” by Dave Ramsey I would highly
suggest it (I am not getting paid to endorse this book. We just really love it,
and it has helped us so much with our financial planning.) It takes a lot of
sacrifice and we aren’t able to go out and blow money like a lot of our
friends. It is worth it to stay home though and be able to make sure our
children are being raised the way we want. I always want them to know that they
are our number one priority.
As much as I
love staying home, it can be hard. Especially when you don’t have a second car
like us right now (Ben’s car is being repaired so he has been using mine this
past month). I can go days without going outside or talking to another human in
person besides Belle who doesn’t do much talking ha ha and Ben for the few
short hours between work and bed. Most days I don’t even get dressed or do my
hair, and that is just pathetic. I try to spruce up before Ben gets home but
still…I need to set a better example for my children or they’ll grow up
thinking all Mom’s do they’re chores in their underwear! So I have decided to
make a goal of getting ready within the first three hours after waking up. I
have seen a lot of cute hairstyles on Pinterest I want to try. If I like them I
will post pictures of the results!!
I am officially
in the third trimester!! I can’t believe it’s gone by so quick. Gracelyn now
weighs almost two pounds and she is going to start packing on the pounds for
the remainder of my pregnancy. She kicks really hard now. I can see my whole belly moving when she is
really active. I have to go in for an ultrasound soon. With Belle’s issues they
like to watch me more carefully and do more ultrasounds. I don’t really see the
point since the top neurologist and geneticist in the state have Belle outside
the womb and can’t seem to figure out what is going on… but hey, at least I get
to see my sweet baby. We should be able to tell what she will look like when
she is born in this next ultrasound. So exciting!
Isabelle is
doing well. She can stand while holding on to things and seems to be making a
bit better eye contact and interaction. I just wish all these specialists could
figure out what was going on. The geneticist says she is a “tough cookie”. The
not knowing is just so hard to bear sometimes. She is still the sweetest and
happiest baby I’ve ever known, so that makes it easier to bear. I am just so
grateful to have her and want to be able to give her all the help possible.
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I found these hats on clearence for 10 cents each!! You can't beat that. So I got them and added some fun stuff!! |
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26 weeks!! |
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My happy Easter baby! |
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Grandpa time!!! |
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Cousin Luci... They love each other! |
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Posing :) |
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Look at that smile!! You can see all four of her teeth... don't mind the toes ha ha she is obsessed. |
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Fishtail braid. It takes a bit longer but I love how it looked. I wish my shorter layers stayed in better though. |
I totally agree with sacrificing to put your children as the priority. I can't wait until I can be home too. It must be hard to have the motivation to get dressed up when its just you at home with the kids. But it is good for them to see you as an example. Someday we will both be home and we can do play dates :) I love love love that braid. And your belly is super cute!
ReplyDeleteHi my little Burnham family. I love, love, love, your story and pictures! I swear Issy keeps getting more beautiful each day. Smooch her all over and sing pattycake for me and say it is from her auntie Faye. Hopefully we can come down in a couple of weeks. We'll let you dad & mom know when we are sure. Love you!!!! oxoxoxo
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